Chastity Devices

Effective chastity devices are now being produced, which can be worn discreetly and in comfort. They can be used to ensure fidelity, as a symbol of commitment, or within a D/s dynamic, as an extension of the Dominants control.

Many couples of all orientations have found that the use of a chastity device has rekindled their physical relationship, or strengthened trust between them. Many Dominants like myself, insist on them being worn by male slaves. This is generally due to the increased element of control, but also because of the beneficial effects they can have upon the wearer. Now with the advent of modern chastity devices, they can safely be worn and with regular milking – indefinitely!

Men without partners can also enjoy a happier existence altogether when their sexuality is brought under control. A personal keyholding service, focusing on orgasm denial and chastity training, administered by an experienced and passionate Dominatrix, like those to be found here at Enforced Obedience, are an excellent solution. The Enchantress fully understands the desires and needs of the compulsive masturbator and provides a challenging combination of fun, discipline and support. However for those who do not wish to experience such exquisite Domination, giving the keys to your chastity device to a friend is also a good way of removing the temptation.

Short Term Wear

When worn for short periods of time such as a few days, the wearer is building up a sensation of anticipation for the time of actual release. The key holder is generally fully involved in this and often participates at this time to keep the wearer on a constant edge of sexual frustration. Because of this mounting frustration, the effect on the wearer is to heighten his senses, thus creating an increased vigour and energy within him. When time for release grows close, the wearer is already on a sexual high and will have a far more intense and emotional experience due to increased levels of anticipation and frustration. It is not uncommon for a post-release depression to occur within the male, who will often wish he had been able to remain in chastity for a longer period. This could be considered to be an ‘anti-climax’!!!

Within medium or even short periods of orgasm denial, the benefits not only accrue to the wearer, but a fully involved key holder can derive great pleasure from exerting this powerful controlling mechanism. Dictating how and when a male can perform sexually is highly erotic for both parties and is often the realisation of the fantasies of both parties. A male in short term chastity is largely focused on when he can be released, this could be at a specific time or when a task is completed or other event. This can make him easy to train to be more attuned to the needs of the key holder. If the keyholder is looking to become the Dominant of the wearer, then training whilst he is in chastity will rapidly take root.

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