It is widely recognised that in order to control a man, first you must control his ability to orgasm. On a primitive level, men's primary objective in life is procreation and this tends to manifest itself as the urge to orgasm. As reproduction is not viable on a daily basis, this most natural of urges is often counter-productive, chastity is the obvious solution.

The sexual control of men is imperative particularly when within a D/s dynamic. This also has similarly positive results when within non-D/s marriages and other relationships. Whatever your gender, perspective or orientation, the sexual training of the male can reap rich rewards. Many women are discovering the benefits of locking up their men. Whether it be to spice-up sex lives, ensure fidelity, or simply to improve attitude and behaviour - chastity and orgasm denial have proven to be incredibly useful within the modern relationship.

Personally, I find sexual control and orgasm denial to be a great deal of fun, as well as a wonderfully potent tool in the control of submissives. Not only does it intensify the already highly intense D/s dynamic, orgasm control and denial can turn even the most surly and selfish of men into thoughtful, attentive individuals. Dominating a slave's sexuality is an extremely effective way of gaining complete control, not just of his sexual functions, but his whole mind. Once the ability to orgasm at will is removed, the male slave can focus his heightened attentions upon his Mistress, and can demonstrate that he is resolutely committed to Her. Even when not in a relationship the chaste male will find their productivity, perspective and happiness improve as a result of such control.

 

 

 

 

As a result of sexual control challenging the most primal of his urges, many men will shy away from chastity. This is often due to their habitual reliance upon self-gratification, which sadly can lead to a degrading, compulsive and joyless sexual experience. Many men are now realising the positive effects of chastity as a way of life and in addition to the positive psychological effects, also benefit from renewed sexual vitality.

It is no co-incidence that orgasm control and denial is one of the most common of male fantasies, particularly in those interested in BDSM. The idea of being controlled sexually and serving a Dominatrix is an appealing one to many and here at Enforced Obedience our slave training and keyholding programs can turn this fantasy into a reality.

Once controlled, the chaste male will find he has more energy on many different levels and will enjoy a new found clarity of thought. Incredibly after a relatively short time, he will even find himself desiring fewer and fewer orgasms. This is primarily because sexual release affects this new found clarity and energy, but also because the sensation of being locked up is a pleasant one. Such are the positive effects of being a chaste male, that with the help of regular milking to enable the prostate to remain healthy, many men are willing to waive their right to orgasm completely. Their reward is a much more productive and positive existence as well as a new-found freedom.

After a short, though often challenging period of adjustment, the male in chastity will find himself invigorated and much more focused. He will also become far more positive and centred, than if left to his own devices. This is not only of great benefit to the individual, but also to those around him.

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